i know you want to show that you are not a loser and you are an open-minded one with a generous heart. But if you say the beautiful words but its useless, generous behavior but unreasonable, are you a winner?

There are 2 types of losers
1. they know they lose and accept it.
and the others try to show off that they are not. They are smart enough not to make things bigger because then this will oppose them...So they try to do it as a unlucky and miserable one...

Just do it what you like.
I just simply do not care